I'm a little #proud of myself in several ways…
Yesterday after dinner (veggie burger, the LIDL paddies are better than expected) I went out for a quick #hike before sunset. I call it quick hike because I can do a kilometer in under 10 minutes and do it over 10 kilometers (pride 1).
I only had the small backpack with water, jacket and headlamp. Open, long hair and no hair tie. I put on skintight #leggings, a tight shirt and my cross-runners. I hardly ever walk around like that in my village. The #gossip here is faster than the Internet. In my youth (80s, 90s) I was ashamed of not looking masculine: thin arms and legs, wide hips and small, feminine breasts. I've always had low testosterone. Today I want it and I have fears. (pride 2)
On the way out of the village, I greeted neighbors and acquaintances and chatted briefly with strangers (Pride 3).
I went up the hill through the forest to the big stones. It got #dark and I enjoyed the sunset. Then I hiked back down through the really dark forest. I live in the area where Little Red Riding Hood was invented. I didn't see the big bad wolf. Unfortunately, I didn't meet Little Red Riding Hood either. (a bit proud 4 - forest is safer than any civilization).
When I arrived down in the village, the soccer game was just over and a lot of men were still standing around having a beer. I had to pass, proudly (5) pushed out my chest, waved and passed. From a distance they certainly saw a woman. Nearby, they may have been disappointed that I'm not as feminine as I'd like to be. I then continued on my way home.
I love my silhouette in the shadow of the street lamps.
Drea
Als Antwort auf Drea • •Beim Vogel fühlte es sich anders an mit den Weltstars, öffentlichen Personen, blauen Haken und so.
Ist im Reallife aber ähnlich bei mir. Geschäftlich biete ich gerne schnell ein Du an (außer Bank-Terminen oder Handel, wo ein Du zur Verkaufstaktik gehören könnte). Der Ton macht die Musik. Auch wenn Kinder oder Wildfremde direkt duzen. Es ist menschlich und nicht förmlich. (Vielleicht kann ich mit diesem Tröt die Norm etwas beeinflussen 😀)